From my heart...

I discipline you, not because I enjoy it...As a matter of fact, I hate it. But I have to discipline you, because I love you. One day hopefully, you will understand that you need to be responsible at both your actions and your sayings in order to be a better person in this world.

Yes, I am not your parent. But with our family status now, it is up to me to take care of you. You may say I am too harsh on you this time. Maybe I am, but all I am trying to do is to teach you that you need to do what you say. Picture someone that you love, told you something. You treasured what they said and trusted what they said, and then later only to find out that they do not mean it. That's the feeling that I had on Saturday, and that's the feeling that your mom had for quite sometime now.

There are rules/boundaries in life (Bible, school, family, society, etc.) and breaking them should not be our priority. Maybe you are too young still, but if you don't start to respect these rules now...you won't start later either.

All in all, if I hurt you, I would like to say I am sorry. And Vincent gugu and I love you. But this disciplinary action will not change. After all, being responsible & have actions to backup what you say is very important in life.